Also, being the change doesn't preclude critical thought. You can do both at the same time. You're setting up a false dichotomy.

And where did I say this? Seriously, quote the part of the post where I said this.

I'm getting so sick of trying to have discussions in fandom, and people falling over themselves to be righteously offended that they don't check to see if what they think they read actually matches up with what they really read.