thank you ! With all the huddies rejoicing for nothing like crazy(they even made youtube videos about how they were rolling on the floor happily)posts like this are like a breath of fresh air.
what you wrote is exactly how I feel about the characters . I would also add that the Huddy just didn't really exist in the first seasons and they just changed canon and character background to fit their needs .
Also,simply put,if I were a huddy or a cuddy fan...I would feel embarrassed and insulted . I think they are writing this for immature teens who have no life experience and live in fairytale land .How can anyone admire S5 and S6 Cuddy and say she's an example of how a strong,independent woman should be? As an educated young female who was raised mostly by just my mother,an independent,strong,intelligent female who was also emotionally frail...this is insulting and laughable. I get wanting your ship to happen but the how should be important too.
Anyway,this show should have never been about romance ,it should have been like SHore first intended it to be,procedural and also character driven,there was a very nice balance and it was endearing to watch also because this was a procedural show that actually managed to not ignore the characters and all that while somehow the procedural/general plot still appeared to be dominant and that made it pretty realistic too and very smart.

Now this finale just seemed to have that scene added in for laughs ,just to please the shippers(in the fandom and among the producers/writers),it was really out of place and quite stupid,like someone stole the script after they finished shooting ,scribbled this scene on the back ,fooled cast and crew to stick around on set after wrap up and randomly film this.